This is kinda f*cked up…
Hey Mama-bear,
“Wholeness” is so arbitrary.
What does it even mean… to achieve this state? To feel “whole” and complete and worthy of your baby?
A great example is this…
So many women try to be the “good girl” to get pregnant. To do/be/act perfect and then you’ll get pregnant.
…Talk about arbitrary…perfection is impossible.
But even so — even tho we know it’s impossible — we still aim for it. Which is kinda fucked up.
But (and listen to this one please 👂🏽) the fucked up parts of us, they’re still lovable. And this is wholeness.
Spenser xo
