Why do you have to go through this and not them?
Hey Mama-bear,
This is a peak into my life today (at the time I’m writing this email) after an 8-year-long fertility journey…
Before reading, I want you to know that this is a peak into a really great day. Like every human on Earth, not every day is a great day — but I know how to accept and move through those days that often lead to this:
Today I got to:
Drive in my new beautiful car.
Massage seats are on (can’t believe this is a thing)
Going home to hop on a call with a travel agent to discuss plans for our trip to Europe in May.
I spent the morning at a coffee shop working on the business I love.
All of this while my husband and nanny care for our 2 children because I was really overwhelmed this week and asked for help aka. a day to myself.
I co-created this life. I don’t take full ownership, as the Universe has guided every step.
I co-created this with the tools, skills and mindset I learned while on the fertility journey.
I’m not in this joy, gratitude and expansiveness today because I got pregnant and had my babies.
>>>>>This joy, this gratitude, this expansiveness is what CREATED MY BABIES.<<<<<
And guess what? If I would have gotten pregnant on my first try — I would not know what I know today on how to co-create my my ideal life.
I would be running on auto-pilot like so many people in the world — who BTW got pregnant when they sneezed.
This is why I had to create a podcast on the question that so many ask: Why can they get pregnant so easy, but not me?
What if the dis-ease was the cure to running on auto-pilot and creating a better life than you could have ever asked for – baby included?
Xo Spenser
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PS. Of course there is pain inside of the fertility journey. But part of the magic is learning how to move through it and allowing it to be a part of your alchemy towards a bigger, better life than you could have ever imagined.
