The JOY of things not going according to plan.
Hey Mama-bear,
I really want you to think about this…
Why do you (we) get so disappointed when things don’t go according to plan?
Here’s the 2 answers I can come up with:
Because we believe that things should have gone according to plan.
Because we think we know best.
And here’s the thing about thoughts…
When they don’t make our bodies feel good – like the thought, “I should know the way.” cause it makes me feel super icky and shame myself – we get to change them. Because if we are honest, we have to admit that things don’t go according to plan… often. For everyone. Not just you.
So we can spend our lives wishing life would answer our plans. Even when our baby comes… we’ll keep resisting life’s twists/turns/new opportunities.
ORRRRR
We can spend our lives learning to trust the unfolding of the Universe… even when things don’t go according to plan.
If both roads led to your baby, which would you choose?
The fight, the battle, the shaming and blaming yourself when shit doesn’t go to plan?
Or the “Everything is always working out for me” truth?
I get that our brains need some convincing to let go of OUR plans. So I recorded a podcast to help you create safety around teaching your mind and body to trust the unfolding on the journey to your baby. Not just to get pregnant, but because I want you to get your life back. I want you to feel joy every day. And I want you to have compassion for yourself when the unexpected (gifts) presents itself.
Listen to this week’s podcast: The JOY of things not going according to plan.
Where you’ll learn:
To validate your need for control.
How to have a HEALTHY sense of control over your fertility journey (it’s not about feeling powerless. I want you to feel powerful as fuck)
Use these change-of-plans-moments to actually build MOMENTUM towards your baby.
Xo Spenser
Listen to the full episode:
PS. Research shows that the most difficult part of the fertility journey, is not the physical aspect. It’s the EMOTIONAL toll this takes on our hearts. And what couples hate most, is how powerless they feel.
The good news is that you DO HAVE a healthy sense of control over your fertility journey. And this is all found in your RESPONSE to what happens. Do you react with “This wasn’t supposed to happen!” Or can you respond with “Everything is always working out for me.” and continue to build that momentum towards your baby.
If this intrigues your spirit and fills your body with relief, then you have to watch my 3-Part Fertile Framework that describes simply, yet in detail – how and why exactly this works for a Universal behind the scenes perspective. Click here to apply and get the private training sent directly to your inbox. XO
